An Old Fashioned Wedding

An Old-Fashioned Wedding

Trendy Waves

Wedding trends ebb and flow like the tide. They rush in powerfully only to be swept away by the next big wave. The power of this year’s wedding trend is quickly absorbed by next year’s fashion wave.

Immoveable Rock

But the heartfelt romance of a simple, old-fashioned wedding is always in style. Like a huge, immoveable rock upon which the trendy waves of wedding trends crash, the powerful simplicity of a good, old-fashioned wedding is as meaningful today as it has been for generations.

Heartstring Tugs

There is often a fine line between a creative, classy wedding that is meaningful and memorable and an opulent, ostentatious social event that is exhausting and expensive. If you feel a gentle ‘tug on your heartstrings’ toward the simple and elegant romance of an old-fashioned wedding, don’t be afraid to follow your heart.

Let It Shine

Let the powerful simplicity of your love and the joy of your ‘togetherness’ define your special day. Let the true romance and deep beauty of your loving union shine through your entire old-fashioned wedding celebration.

All You Need

In addition to eliminating loads of stress and avoiding hefty bills, the timeless elements of love, joy, romance, and celebration are all that is needed. An old-fashioned wedding will evoke the charm of a bygone era and the customs and traditions your parents and grandparents enjoyed will be meaningful to you as well.

10 Simple Steps to an Old Fashioned Wedding

1) Budget - Create a realistic budget with your fiance (and those involved in finances). Commit to live within the budget. Set aside enough for everything you need, some of what you want, and a few indulgences.

2) Venue - Weather permitting, find a garden, a friend’s backyard, a nearby park, or a local botanical garden. For indoor ceremonies, churches are often perfect for an old-fashioned wedding. Older, rustic buildings or historical sites and local bed-and-breakfast establishments also work well.

3) Theme - Think simplicity. Think romance. Old-fashioned weddings tend to favor muted tones and pastel shades such as cream and pale pink. Build upon a traditional motif like roses or angels.

4) Attendants - Keep your wedding party small and intimate. Invite family members or friends who are close to you. Traditional tuxedos (perhaps with tails) for the groomsmen and vintage dresses (matching or non-matching) will honor tradition and create a distinctive look (not to mention the cost savings).

5) Invitations - Set the tone for your old-fashioned wedding with handwritten invitations that you design and mail. Create a simple design (e.g. black lettering with a simple border) and use formal language with proper titles (e.g. Mr., Mrs., Miss).

6) Gown - Look for a simple old-fashioned wedding dress (or any white or cream-colored gown) at vintage clothing or consignment shops. Wearing your mother’s or grandmother’s wedding gown can add an element of meaning and nostalgia to your day.

7) Decor - White candles in classic candle holders, greenery wreaths of ivy, fir, or pine, and traditional flowers like lilies, daisies, or roses evoke a sense of pure, romantic simplicity that is timeless. Add a few personal touches that match your theme such as antiques, artwork, or displays of personal/family photos and mementos.

8) Customs - Honor wedding customs of the past by including the heartfelt traditions of a simple, old-fashioned wedding. Agree to not see each other until the ceremony. Have you father escort you down the aisle and toss the bridal bouquet during the reception.

9) Creativity - Don’t forget that the ‘somethings’ (old, new, borrowed, blue) include something new. Add your own creative touches. Perhaps a unique guest book or guest book tree for your guests, a set of sand ceremony vases in lieu a unity candle, or wedding sparklers instead of rice at your reception will add a unique signature to your special day.

10) Fun - The idea of an ‘old-fashioned’ wedding may mean something else to you. Romance is timeless and perhaps you prefer the chivalry of the Golden Age of Camelot, the medieval beauty of Romeo and Juliet, the classic elegance of the Victorian Age, the simple romance of the ‘Little House on the Prairie’ era, or the stylish chic of Gatsby’s roaring 20’s. Have fun! Make your old-fashioned wedding as unique and individual as you are.

Enduring Memory

Your old-fashioned wedding is likely to be the most wonderful day of your life. Create a wedding experience that will be an enduring memory long remembered by both of you and your guests.

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